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The executives tried to mediate and reconcile, but I refused.

It dragged on for months, she wrote.
I just had a sinking feeling in my gut that I had to do this.
The final attempt at reconciliation, Pak says, involved the man writing her a formal letter of apology.
I walked out, never touched, or opened that letter, she explained.
Asians have been the butt of jokes, but these jokes are not to be dealt with lightly.
And then do something to repair this damage.