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Its not what I want for you or for us.

Thats why I cant propose to you today.
I want to leave here with you and connect.
I dismissed them as rumors because thats what they were to me, James explained about his thought process.
When you find out that they are, it just makes you question everything.
Its as simple as that.
James clarified, though, that he didnt think it was possible for the couple to reconcile.
A user on TikTok alsoallegedthat Kirkconnell bullied her in high school for romantically pursuing Black men.
My age or when it happened does not excuse anything, she wrote.
They are not acceptable or okay in any sense.
I was ignorant, but my ignorance was racist.
Ive gotten a lot of people asking me, Well, what have you done to change since then?
But then theres also people thats messaging me saying, Youve done nothing wrong, dont listen to people.
Im just, Im tired of getting all of this and not saying anything.
Kirkconnellhas also posteda series of Instagram Stories of the aforementioned resources, which includeUncomfortable Conversations With a Black Man.
He also expressed confusion over the timeline of Kirkconnells actions.
he said about the antebellum-party photos.
Is it not a good look in 2018 or is it not a good look in 2021?
Remember when the biggestBachelor-adjacent scandal involved the leads motherbeing a total asshole?
Cant believe were yearning for those days.